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Who is a good rheumatologist doctor . I need one i didnt care for the first one I saw that’s why I didn’t. Go back

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Trumann, AR

I have had RA since 2021/2022 the first doctor I saw I didn’t like her bedside manner she was rude and told me we cause ourselves to get this. I found out I had it because I woke up one more an couldn’t walk it hurt so bad I thought I broke my foot. The urgent care doctor spotted right away i didn’t realize at the time I had already had symptoms in my hips and knees . I like my family doctor but I think i need another doctor for this it is in my knees feet hips hands arms i have COPD this last… read more

September 8
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First, so sorry about the loss of your mom. And that first rheumatologist sounds like a real piece of work — because no, you absolutely did not cause your RA. That's simply not true, and you deserved so much better than that.

The good news is that finding a new rheumatologist is completely within your rights, and it's the Show Full Answer

First, so sorry about the loss of your mom. And that first rheumatologist sounds like a real piece of work — because no, you absolutely did not cause your RA. That's simply not true, and you deserved so much better than that.

The good news is that finding a new rheumatologist is completely within your rights, and it's the right move. Here are some practical ways to find a better one:

- Ask your family doctor for a referral — since you already trust them, their recommendation carries real weight
- Check your insurance provider's directory for in-network rheumatologists, then research them independently
- Look for a rheumatologist who listens, explains things clearly, and involves you in treatment decisions
- Consider telehealth options if travel is difficult — many specialists now offer virtual consultations With RA affecting so many of your joints, getting proper treatment really matters. A good rheumatologist will work *with* you on a plan that feels manageable — not overwhelming.

It's also worth knowing that pain management doesn't have to mean a mountain of pills. Options can include:

- Low-dose medications like DMARDs that target the disease itself
- Topical creams or patches for localized pain
- Complementary approaches like gentle massage or mindfulness
- Short-term corticosteroids for flare relief

Your family doctor can also play an important coordinating role alongside your rheumatologist, so keeping that relationship strong is a real asset.

September 8
A myRAteam Member

Can I get some recommendations on telehealth doctors because i need to get someone to help me get started on something or tell me what to do

September 8

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