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Virginia Beach, VA

For all those who care for small children-grandparents, nannies, etc- do you refuse to watch them on days when the kids have the flu or a similar illness because your immune system is suppressed from biologics? I watch my grand babies from time to time while their parents are working, but I have a hard time deciding what to do when I know there's a virus circulating in their home...

February 5, 2020
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Members shared the difficult balance between caring for grandchildren and protecting themselves from illness while on immunosuppressive... Read more

Members shared the difficult balance between caring for grandchildren and protecting themselves from illness while on immunosuppressive biologics, with approaches ranging from avoiding sick family members entirely to taking calculated risks with extra precautions like immune supplements and maintaining physical distance. Several members described personal experiences, including one teacher who contracted the flu after years without it and now plans to get flu shots and limit contact with her infant grandson, while others mentioned the heartbreak of dropping supplies at the door instead of being able to comfort sick loved ones in person. A recurring theme was the tension between guilt and self-preservation, with members acknowledging that while it feels terrible to stay away during times of need, protecting one's own health is essential when living with a compromised immune system.

A myRAteam Member

Every holiday I go around family and before RA RD I would get sick from one of the kids every time. I still go to the gathering and have fun, but I don't get on the floor (I don't know how long it would take me to get back up) and play with the new toys with the kids. I keep a better distance then before. It's a choice between hugs and having children on my lap or getting sick and ending up with a flare.
My granddaughter lives 8 hours away so I don't babysit. I'm an aunt and a great aunt.

February 5, 2020
A myRAteam Member

I have a 6 year old who coughs and sneezes and picks her nose all the time. I’ve asked her to move out but she never leaves...lol
No but seriously I just try to not snuggle too much when she is sick and pray I don’t get sick. But if she didn’t live with me I wouldn’t be around someone who is sick knowingly esp now because every time ya get sick ya have to stop your meds

February 5, 2020
A myRAteam Member

Same here, I stay away from sick, it take me longer to recover then they do.

February 18, 2020
A myRAteam Member

Im a 30 year veteran classroom teacher. Im exposed to it all needless to say. Last week i fell super ill to the flu. I havent had it since 2008.... it was super scary. I feel like the experience has made me wiser for future flu- i will never insist on being alone again.... and i will now take the flu shot that ive been acting like i dont need. Im even considering staying away from my 5 month old grandson just to make sure not to carry germs to him. Sickness is real. Loved ones will just have to understand. Be smart. Stay well.

February 7, 2020
A myRAteam Member

I watch my granddaughter all the time. Won’t give that up for nothing in the world. I usually take immune supplements that’s been working really well.

February 5, 2020

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