Amy I don't know Tess 54 but they need to know suicide is no answer, NOTHING is worth doing that, there are so many people who care so many people who can help. Whoever they are talking about pass this along. I would love to help in any way that I can. Suicide does so much damage to all of those around the person. Please, please please include others into this issue so this person can be saved from this darkness. I understand where they are coming from but it is not the answer.

Please ask for help!!! My neurologist diagnosed me with depression just recently. He says it is so common with RA when people have chronic pain, poor sleep and a change in lifestyle. I see a therapist tomorrow. You are not alone!!!! Please reach out. They can help us!!!! There are therapies for us. You are worth the effort to get back to yourself!! BLessings to you!!

I can relate to get feelings all too well. I am tired of pain.

I wished God would take me when my back was messed up, thinking I was nothing but a burden to my family especially my hubby. He took such great care of me. My back is better after surgery and I feel so much better and so much more active in our life. Talk with God, I did and it took some time, but things have turned around so much! Much luck, I will put in a word for you! Hang in!

This is a good answer from Judy but u need to try and keep them answering questions. If you can.