My wife and I have only been married for a month and the sexual side effects are unacceptable for both of us.
I take Trexall and it does not bother my sex. Relax and take it slow. Your mind have to work with your sex part. If you're not feeling well. Your body will not function I don't care what med they put you on. Both of y'all have to come to a understanding about sex. When you have RA .
I was on that for awhile and then was on zoloft for a long time until being put on Savella which had an antidepressant in it.
My heart goes out to you both we are seniors and miss what we had prior to RA 2014. Pain and sex do not go hand and hand. What we do have is 30 years of glorious memories.