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Do You Ever Feel Guilty That U Cant Be The Partner U Wanna B Due To This Disease

Do You Ever Feel Guilty That U Cant Be The Partner U Wanna B Due To This Disease

I jst feel so guilty sometimes that I cant be the wife he chose to be with 9yrs ago alot has change with in this last yr when I got diagnosed and I was jst wonder if anyone else feels this way sometimes

A myRAteam Member said:

I feel the same way! My husband is so wonderful! He gets frustrated for sure. But he does the best he can to help me when I need it.
Praying for you! 🙏🏻🥰

posted 3 months ago
A myRAteam Member said:

When I was first diagnosed with RA it was quite a roller coaster ride. There were many lows, but I never felt guilty because I always felt it was a temporary situation. Being married means you ride out the rough times as well as the good ones. It's part of the deal, so I don't ever feel guilty. Hope you don't either!

posted 3 months ago
A myRAteam Member said:

I completely understand.My husband is very supportive but there are lots of others who just don’t get it .They can’t see your pain so therefore it isn’t three.Fatigue is also a big problem and it changes your life drastically.One hand you feel very guilty and on the other you feel very lonely and helpless.

posted 3 months ago
A myRAteam Member said:

Well I have my furs. Unfortunately lost my husband 9 yrs ago. I yell at him frequently for not being here for me. I know he would be comforting at times. But life goes on.

posted 3 months ago
A myRAteam Member said:

I know how you feel but don't let that eat at you. Have he change cause some people will use your sickness against you to hurt or with draw from you or make you feel worest and RA comes with mental illness so please don't you beautiful it's not are fault I feel so bad at times but I push foward if wasent for my relationship with God I truly be list find place that you can hug yourself and stay there😁❤🥰. I just sign my divorce paper to man I married twice and Sayed. I do RA alone or go to home. So I pray for you and I send you hug if your husband truly love you he see all you go threw with out word. 🥲🤗🙏

posted 3 months ago
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