When I was first diagnosed with RA it was quite a roller coaster ride. There were many lows, but I never felt guilty because I always felt it was a temporary situation. Being married means you ride out the rough times as well as the good ones. It's part of the deal, so I don't ever feel guilty. Hope you don't either!

I completely understand.My husband is very supportive but there are lots of others who just don’t get it .They can’t see your pain so therefore it isn’t three.Fatigue is also a big problem and it changes your life drastically.One hand you feel very guilty and on the other you feel very lonely and helpless.

Well I have my furs. Unfortunately lost my husband 9 yrs ago. I yell at him frequently for not being here for me. I know he would be comforting at times. But life goes on.

I know how you feel but don't let that eat at you. Have he change cause some people will use your sickness against you to hurt or with draw from you or make you feel worest and RA comes with mental illness so please don't you beautiful it's not are fault I feel so bad at times but I push foward if wasent for my relationship with God I truly be list find place that you can hug yourself and stay there😁❤🥰. I just sign my divorce paper to man I married twice and Sayed. I do RA alone or go to home. So I pray for you and I send you hug if your husband truly love you he see all you go threw with out word. 🥲🤗🙏