I wear tight leather weight lifting gloves, open top fingers for good grip, integrated wrist wraps helps hurting wrist too, which I’m sure u have too if ur fingers are bad. AMZN has em.
I’m a dude, so I got them in bad boy black, but they come in blue, pink, lots of colors. And hey..they’re cool, just ask folks who look at them funny...”so, Wadda u bench?”